Continued from previous post…….
“If you believe your dignity is anchored deeply inside of you, you can endure just about anything.” – Donna Hicks
- Very briefly on the physiology of trauma
Somatic bottom up approaches are essential when dealing with trauma because trauma impacts our physiology
Our trauma response system is an evolutionary compelling force with survival value
When we ‘perceive’ danger we opt for flee or fight, but when this is not possible we have another biological choice – our vagal circuit leads to freeze and shut down responses automatically
Neuroception is our human capacity to detect safety and risk or danger in the environment without cognitive awareness
We have a nervous system that allows us to participate in other people’s nervous systems for better and for worse
Our bodies require co-regulation, but we live in a world where many people have lost their capacity to co regulate with each other because they don’t feel safe enough
Our physiological states shift with cues of trauma and this can script our expression and interpretation of others
Prosodic voices can soothe our physiology
- Trauma and dignity
“No power on this earth can destroy the thirst for hunah dignity” Nelson Mandela
Dignity can be defined as our inborn sense of value and worth, which cannot be stripped from us, but it can be wounded, abused and violated
Dr Donna Hicks’ 10 essential elements of dignity in brief:
Acceptance of other people’s identity and authentic selves without prejudice and bias always assuming that others have integrity
Inclusion; fostering a sense of belonging for all
Safety that involves both physical safety and protection from humiliation and allows freedom of expression without retribution
Acknowledgement: attention and responding to people’s concerns, feelings and experiences
Recognition: validate people for their talents, hard work, thoughtfulness, and help
Fairness: treat people justly, with equality and without discrimination or injustice, honoring their dignity
Benefit of the Doubt: treat people as trustworthy. Start with the premise that others have good motives and are acting with integrity
Understanding: believe that what others think matters
Independence: encourage people to act on their own behalf so that they feel in control of their lives and experience a sense of hope and possibility
Accountability: take responsibility for your actions
ne of the first things I had written to post on this site when I was putting it together was about how individual innate trauma responses like denial and dissociation, projection and transmission, and so on, also operate at a cultural and collective level, and that all our experience is embedded in bigger contexts, all the way up to the cosmos. Our individual and inter- generational traumas are embedded in and informed by larger cultural and collective traumas. We are all situated in social containers where collective traumas dynamics are being played out constantly and which inform our circumstances and thinking. Thomas Hubl talks about a collective trauma web we are all entangled in. We cannot escape this because there is probably no place or country on this planet where, across generations, there has not been massive scale trauma experiences like wars, famine, dire poverty, dislocation and exile, occupation of territories and genocide, dictatorships, oppression and marginalisation of groups, slavery, racism and sexism, to mention but a few. If we add natural disasters like earthquakes and tsunamis and the massive environmental destruction and climate trauma we humans have been inflicting upon Mother Earth, which is now an ongoing, accelerated experience, then it is easy to understand how trauma is relevant to all of us.