Internal and external climate                       (Edited)

“Τhere is a human capacity for good-natured cooperation that is simply not encouraged in modern society. That must change.” Carl Sagan

“My great fear is that, out of enormous human stupidity, all this knowledge that we have built up over the years will be destroyed in some way. We have the ability to prevent disasters on our planet, as long as we sow the seeds we need. Wouldn’t it be terrible for this hearth of consciousness that we have, this hearth of life that exists, to go out while it has the ability to survive? This scares me more. As far as climate change is concerned, is it not terrible, for the temporary gain of some countries, to condemn humanity to disaster while we can prevent it? Humans think about the short term and temporary gains, which, of course, in the long run are not gains, but a loss of their very existence. And this is a good answer to those who ask us why we are interested in physics or astronomy.” (From an interview with astrophysicist Pavlos Kastanas or Astronio in Lifo magazine)

“Fulfillment is like the climate rather than the weather. Over time, we can shift our inner climate toward greater wellbeing. Then, when the storms do come, they aren’t as severe” Rick Hanson

Skies of acrid smoke    

Over the last eleven days or more extreme heat has engulfed Greece and temperatures have been breaking record. In some parts of the country the temperature has hit 47C (117F), while the ground temperature in the centre of Athens reached 55C. And then over the last eight days entire tracts of suburban forest around the capital went up in flames. Ash rained down in Athens, and was also, blown further away. By Saturday a huge blaze had burned through forests and houses towards Lake Marathon, which is Athens’ main reservoir, advancing up the slopes of Mount Parnitha, regarded as Athens’ last substantial “green lung”. . One official claimed that “These mountains around Athens are our life support……We’ve taken a huge step back. A vital part of our green infrastructure has gone. With all these trees no longer there, we’ll be faced with new climate conditions and have higher temperatures and likely floods in the metropolitan area of Athens for years to come.” The losses are multilevel. Forests and fields are a home to rich flora and fauna. The fires that have swept across the country and those of other countries around the world do not only burn down trees and houses, creating economic havoc, poverty and post traumatic responses to humans and animals, but also lead to countless innocent domesticated and wild animals to die horrific deaths.

But fires have not been raging around the capital of Greece only, but nationwide. The situation has been evaluated as without precedent in the country, both in the intensity and wide distribution of the wildfires (approximately 586 fire sites within a few days). Fires are still raging around the country as I write this bit today (9/8/2021), despite the effort of firefighters, the help sent to Greece from abroad, and the locals, who have been heroically battling the fires. Titles like “biblical destruction” and “apocalyptic scenes” populate news outlets. Watching the News causes visceral emotions and sensations.  Politicians and experts are now finally talking about climate change suggesting that the exceptionally high temperatures have turned the country into a powder keg. Athens is the hottest capital in mainland Europe and meteorologists predict that annual mean temperatures across the Mediterranean will increase by up to 2C over the next three decades.

Further south in the Peloponnese peninsula, fires have destroyed large parts of several states and threatened ancient Olympia, the site where the Olympic flame is lit every four years. On Evia, the island east of the capital, where fires have also rampaged across rugged woodland, firefighters and residents are still fighting a titanic battle to contain the fire and bring it under control. So far, at least 888,280 acres of land have been reduced to ashes throughout the country, according to data from the Department of Geology and Geoenvironment of the University of Athens. According to the data of the European satellite system “Copernicus” (EFFIS) in Evia, the burned area is estimated at 507,950 acres, while it is anticipated that it could even reach 700,000 acres. This is the biggest disaster of all time in Greece from a single fire. Evia is one of the bigger Greek islands linked to the mainland with a bridge. It is not  very prosperous and the economy is heavily based on agriculture and tourism. Its biggest asset was its natural beauty: forests, farmland and beaches. The video below on YouTube captures part of the devastation that had taken place a few days ago: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tecyCKXwNPw&t=400s..

PTSD and natural disasters  

Here on the Cycladic island where I reside the sea has provided a cool respite from the heat wave this week. The evening scarlet sun in the sky is surrounded by a smoke like fog. The smoke has been visible in the sky for days and it’s not easy to get away from the reality of what is going on in other parts of the country and the world. I think of what keeps us from responding collectively to the levels of earth destruction that has been taking place for decades. Is it simply that we are apathetic when it comes to issues like climate change? Is it ignorance, disbelief and indifference, or are we also, so overwhelmed by existential fears about the future and a sense of powerlessness that we become immobilized? On a personal level, denial or apathy might sometimes be a skillful psychological response, but collectively we need to allow our grief and fear to motivate and mobilize us.

The more I read and watch things revenant to the fires the more I think of the immediate, but also long term effects on people’s lives: financial and livelihood issues, work prospects, forced dislocation, abandonment of homes and farmland, loss of property, and something that is often not discussed at all – post traumatic responses created by natural disasters. Disasters are traumatic events that can result in a wide range of mental and physical health consequences. Those who experience natural disasters: floods, earthquakes, tsunamis, hurricanes, fires, volcano eruptions, etc, are at risk of developing post-traumatic stress symptomatology. This can manifest itself as recurring flashbacks or nightmares, fearfulness, anxiety, depression, irritability, headaches, nausea or trembling, sleep difficulties or eating issues, chest pain, avoidance, withdrawal, difficulty making decisions, and other health issues, among other symptoms. Research conducted after disasters in the past three decades suggests that the burden of PTSD among people exposed to disasters is substantial. In one paper I looked at it was claimed that research that looked at PTSD survivors between 1980 and 2007 found that those who were the direct victims of disasters were 30% to 40% more likely to have PTSD, compared with the average of 5% to 19% in the general population. There have also been observations of suicide increase after large scale disasters like hurricanes.

Psychosocial stressors associated with the natural disaster are present both immediately after the event, but also as time progresses, intensifying when help isn’t available. While we may initially disassociate ourselves from what is happening and provide heroic efforts, both of which can serve as protective factors, eventually the reality of the destruction and its aftermath do set in and this can create feelings of hopelessness, helplessness and disillusionment. Also, post-disaster PTSD is associated with a range of correlates including socio demographic and background factors, event exposure characteristics, personality traits and social support factors. Various factors can affect how likely it is that an individual would get PTSD, including the degree of physical injury they incurred, the immediate risk it posed to their own life or the life of loved ones, the severity of destruction to their property, whether they experienced loss of family members and whether they were forced to relocate.

The risk of our civilization destroying itself

I also think of how we have as a species, despite our capacity to accomplish unbelievably complex and wonderful things, somehow managed to arrive at this place of indifference, harsh exploitation of and disconnect from planet earth, the home that sustains us all. How did we get so disconnected from the simple truth that we are all part of, and also, heavily dependent on our natural environment?

In relation to our human capacity to cause destruction the scientist Carl Sagan (you can read the whole interview at: https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/the-cosmos-an-interview-with-carl-sagan-236668/) says: “Sixth-century Ionia was, to the best of my knowledge, the first time there was a generally accepted view that the universe was subject not to the whims and vagaries of the gods, but to generally applicable laws of nature that human beings were able to understand. There’s a serious danger of our civilization destroying itself. It wasn’t until the 1960s that the first photograph of the whole earth was taken, and you saw it for the first time as a tiny blue ball floating in space. You realized that there were other, similar worlds far away, of different size, different color and constitution. You got the idea that our planet was just one in a multitude. I think there are two apparently contradictory and still very powerful benefits of that cosmic perspectivethe sense of our planet as one in a vast number and the sense of our planet as a place whose destiny depends on us.”

He continues: “Life has had 4 billion years to develop through tortuous trial and error. But unlike biological evolution, which is fundamentally a random process and extremely wasteful in terms of lots of organisms dying, we don’t have that opportunity. If we destroy ourselves, it may be a minor tragedy for life on the planet, but it’s certainly a major tragedy for us. So we have to foresee the mistakes and avoid them. We can’t stumble and then say. “I guess next time stockpiling 15,000 targeted nuclear warheads is not a good thing. I’ve learned from my mistake.” I think there’s a serious danger of our civilization destroying itself, and at least a possibility of our species destroying itself. But the destruction of all life on earth is unlikely, and certainly we can’t destroy the planet. There’s a hierarchy of destructibility.”

Relatedness and connectedness of all universal material

On relatedness he says: “The matter we’re made out of was cooked in the center of stars. We’re made of star stuffthe calcium in our teeth, the carbon in our genes, the nitrogen in our hair, the silicon in our eyeglasses. Those atoms were all made from simpler atoms in stars hundreds of light-years away and billions of years ago. It’s an astonishing thing, we’re so tied to the rest of the cosmos. Cosmic rays that are produced in the death throes of stars are partly responsible for the mutations that have led to usthe changes in the genetic material. The origin of life was spurred by ultraviolet light from the sun and lightning, which in turn is caused by the heating of the earth by the sun. The connections are intricate and powerful and lovely. For those people seeking a cosmic tie-in, one exists. It’s not the one the astrologers pretend, but it’s much more elegant, and it has the additional virtue of being true…..

People certainly love their families, then distant relations, then friends; then they have some degree of affection for their community, their tribe. One principal level of human identification right now is with the nation-state. Now, the obvious next identification is with all the people on the planet. But why is that the end? I mean, especially if we understand our common heritage, our genetic relationship to animals and plants. Why not a set of absolutely continuous dissolves, one animal to another? Don’t we have some degree of sympathy and respect for all the living things on the planet? They are our cousins. It’s such an obvious idea…….. It’s the time perspective point again. Most of human history was spent in hunter-gatherer communities. And in these kinds of communities todaythere aren’t many of themyou find a degree of cooperativeness, an absence of alienation that is unheard of in modern society. To ignore our social heredity is a serious mistake. There is a human capacity for good-natured cooperation that is simply not encouraged in modern society. That must change.”

Fulfillment is like the climate rather than the weather 

Finally, I’d like to share a new episode of the Wellbeing podcast (https://www.rickhanson.net/being-well-podcast-finding-and-maintaining-fulfillment/), on which Forrest Hanson and his dad, Dr Rick Hanson, discuss fulfillment, which they define as the inner “climate” rather than the “weather”. The basic themes they touch upon are: authentic fulfillment in the self-help space; the tyranny of low expectations, but also the pitfalls of constantly chasing fulfillment; the difference between eudemonic and hedonic wellbeing; the importance of nature, individual variation, and circumstance; the upper reaches of possibility; dealing with “low fulfillment” moments and existential dread, and finding meaning and carrying on.

Communication that alienates and children’s books

“Life-alienating communication both stems from and supports hierarchical or domination societies, where large populations are controlled by a small number of individuals to those individuals, own benefit. It would be in the interest of kings, czars, nobles, and so forth that the masses be educated in a way that renders them slavelike in mentality…… When we are in contact with our feelings and needs, we humans no longer make good slaves and underlings.” Marshall B. Rosenberg

“Do what you can with what you have, in the time you have, in the place you are” Nkosi Johnson (a South African boy born with HIV who became an advocate for children with AIDS before he died at about age 12)

Perverse communication – red flags

A. In today’s post I will make a brief reference to Dr Marie-France Hirigoyen’s book, Ethical Harassment: Perverse Violence in Everyday Life, which I mentioned in the previous post. In relatively few pages, the book covers a range of topics related to psychological violence and manipulation and points out all the red flags that could warn someone about the destructive communication dynamics in a personal, peer or other professional relationship. In the workplace or in educational settings, for example, the attack often takes place underground in the context of nonverbal communication with sighs, indifference, destabilizing implicit and malicious comments, slanderous lies, in order to push the targeted person into isolation and to their limits so that they are more likely to react and make mistakes. Concerning the workplace Hirigoyen writes: “In order to exterminate a worker, he /she must be isolated – all alliances are dissolved – so that he /she cannot defend him /herself. “When one is alone, it is difficult to revolt, especially when one believes that everyone is against them.”

Marie-France Hirigoyen opens her book by writing: “In life there are exciting encounters that motivate us to do our best, and others that wear us down and possibly break us. One person can destroy another through the process of ethical/psychological harassment. In fact, at some point, this persistent effort can result in real mental / psychic annihilation.” She discusses the necessity of using the term perverse and what it suggests in this context, and also, clarifies that her discussion will be informed from her expertise as a victimologist. She situates herself on the side of the victimized person from the start. The first part of the book focuses on both our private and professional life, psychological violence within the family and the couple’s relationship, as well as, in the workplace. The second part analyzes perverse ways of relating either in our private lives or in the public space, and describes the victim and the attacker, and the characteristics of this perverse violence and communication. The rest of the book is devoted to the effects of these tactics on the victimized individual both during the influence phase and in the long run, as well as, suggestions and advice on how to get help. In today’s text I will focus on this type of perverse communication. Hirigoyen writes that this kind of “influence uses means that give the illusion of communication – a peculiar communication, which does not bring together, but removes and prevents exchange. With this distorted communication, the perpetrator intends to use the other. To maintain and intensify the confusion, he must manipulate verbally. Hiding the real information is important in order to make the victim weak.”

Firstly, in this type of communication there is a systematic denial of direct communication through the avoidance of direct answers and minimal verbal communication. Refusal to name a situation or problem, refusal to dialogue and explain, avoidance of open conflict and finding a solution together are used to prevent the victim from thinking, understanding, reacting. This ultimately leads to alienation. A second characteristic of this type of communication is the frequent distortion of speech. Speech is contradictory, cold, vague and intimidating. A third characteristic of this communication is the frequent use of lies, especially indirect lies and an intense attachment to details, avoiding the essence of the issues (in order to distract the other), vague hints, tall stories and falsification of the truth. Hirigoyen refers to a 5th century BC treatise with the title: The Art of War by the Chinese Sun Che, who writes: “The art of war is the art of deception. In fact, when someone presents himself as different from what he is, he increases the chances of winning “.

A fourth characteristic is contempt. Hirigoyen writes that contempt is a weapon of the weak and provides temporary protection from unwanted emotions, and is often addressed to women. The person who systematically uses perverse communication implements destabilizing moves in public while trying to find allies in their environment. A fifth feature is the frequent use of paradoxical messages. For example, something is expressed verbally while something else is implied non verbally, which results in many messages not being immediately perceived as aggressive or destructive, because they are confused with others, which are transmitted simultaneously.

The sixth characteristic of perverse communication is the constant reducing the other, making them feel smaller. The attacker takes away talents and strengths from the other and because the attacks are indirect it is difficult for the victim to perceive what is going on. Hirigoyen writes that in general, in order to destabilize the other, one needs in the long run to ridicule one’s political positions, values, ideas and preferences, not to address another person often, to undermine one in public, to deprive one of the opportunity to express oneself, to exploit weaknesses, to undermine abilities and self-confidence, to make the person doubt their abilities, to sew discord in their social environment, to create doubts about one’s thoughts and feelings so that one gradually loses one’s sense of identity. The seventh characteristic of this destructive form of communication is the “divide and rule” tactic. The attacker provokes rivalries and envy and then watches with pleasure the exhaustion of the others, as he feels victorious having achieved his goals. This is a tactic that the attacker uses to impose power, inflict punishment, hurt, exhaust, distract and unload their own intense envy. Also, the attacking person, by projecting their intentions and behaviors onto the other person, shifts guilt (embolism of guilt onto the victim).

Finally, a key feature of this dysfunctional and destructive form of communication is the imposition of power. The process is systematic until the other person is subjugated, enslaved, rendered obedient, silenced, deformed. Hirigoyen clarifies that perverse violence is different from direct abuse of power by tyranny. There the oppression is obvious, while in this case the violence is exercised underground. It is “pure violence“. She refers to Reynaldo Perrone, who calls it “violent punishment” because it is asymmetrical, hidden and without respite.

B. Two children’s books on the daily life and joys of Black children

Every now and then I might treat myself to a children’s book. I recently got two illustrated books that celebrate Black children’s daily lives and joys. A little girl and her Mama walking in the rain. A little boy, his Grandpa and the bright yellow moon. Stories of nurture and our natural environment…. Two short extracts below:

Me and Mama by Cozbi A. Cabrera

“Outside a pecker pecks. /The side walk is longer than it is wide. / I love the grass that grows in the in-between. / It’s moss, Mama says. / It’s velvet, I say. / A hole is where a branch was. / Nests are left behind in winter. / Some things don’t let go. But for what? / The stores are boxes filled with people.”

Max and the tag-along moon by Floyd Cooper

“Then slowly, very slowly, Max’s bedroom began to fill with a soft yellow glow. The clouds faded away and the moon peeked through! Max gazed up at that ball of light and thought about what Grandpa said. “That ol’ moon will always shine for me….on and on!” Max knew then that whenever he saw the moon, he would think of Grandpa, on and on. And he slept soundly embraced in soft yellow light.”

July 28th, 2021

Art, a model of the psyche and mind metaphors, and moral harassment         (Edited  – July 30th)

Τέχνη, ένα μοντέλο του ψυχικού μας κόσμου και μεταφορές σχετικά με τον νου, και ηθική παρενόχληση

Art as a kind of homecoming / Η Τέχνη ως επιστροφή

I think it was in 2012 that I decided to take my artwork to the street, especially, on the island where I have lived for the last 35 years. It was a small act of resistance and claiming visibility among other things. Almost a decade later I decided to close a cycle and mount posters of my more recent art in the street again. Eventually however, I opted for exhibiting in one of the local online news websites instead. Below is the accompanying short passage:

Homecoming – Summer 2021

The most important adventure of our lives is discovering who we truly, to know the breadth and depth of ourselves. Most of us will never get the chance to ponder on the question: Who am I really? or on Mary Oliver’s line: “What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” This journey is a slow process that involves shedding layers of experiences and cultural messages that do not serve us in our lives and don’t reflect who we really are, and also, recognizing who we want to be. It is the process of recognizing our vulnerabilities and our personal power, as well as, the dynamics of the contexts we are embedded in. As Janet Louise Stephenson wrote “Authenticity requires a certain measure of vulnerability, transparency and integrity.” The process eventually transforms into a sweet homecoming. There are different paths and ways to navigate this journey, but through creativity and imagination, we find our identity and a reservoir of healing for ourselves and the collective. For me art seems to have been both an intrinsic part of who I am and an important tool that has allowed me to navigate the journey. In the quiet, solitary moments of presence and caring that making art requires, a homecoming to the essence of ourselves and to a sense of belonging to the local and to the whole world, take place. Poet Paul Celan wrote: “Poetry is a sort of homecoming.” These eighteen acrylic paintings are part of a number of paintings I have worked on these last two and a half years. Each one reflects a small step in my own homecoming journey.

Mind metaphors and visual exploration of our mental landscape

Μεταφορές σχετικά με τον νου και διερεύνηση του πνευματικού / ψυχικού τοπίου

I’d also like to refer to some material from Dr Rick Hanson’s last week’s meditation podcast. In this podcast he discusses metaphors of the mind and suggests ways of exploring our mental experience, sub-personalities and different aspects of ourself, through the creation of visual displays of our inner landscape.

One metaphor is that of a committee, another is that of a mansion with sunny rooms, messy ones and the rooms in the basement, where the suppressed, the painful and the implicit material lies. Yet another metaphor is that of a landscape with lakes, rivers, mountains and valleys, deserts, etc. We can engage in drawing or making collages and observing what insights come up. Dr Hanson also presents a visual model of our psyche, which contains three concentric circles.  We develop this structure to survive in the world. The inner most circle could be termed BEING and this is our core, who we truly are, our fundamental nature, a vast awareness, our temperament perhaps, a dynamic and stable sense of who we are, One might expereince this as a central core of unbounded self. Susan McConnell (2020), informed by the IFS model, suggests that “At the core of every individual, when all the extra is peeled away, is this essential loving, creative, wise, courageous state.” The next circle contains what could be termed “the scared or hidden self”, which one might consider as all we have disowned, the non experienced experience, the suppressed and dissociated, the implicit memories. Finally, there is the outer circle, termed ACT, which is what we want to present to the world, who we want to be seen as. It is our persona/s, our presentation to the world in different contexts. Tension exists between these layers of experience or layers of the psyche and healing and growth require integration and communication between the different layers.Rick Hanson (2020) says “One breath at a time, one synapse at a time, you can gradually develop an increasingly unshakable core inside yourself.” The more we grow and heal the less friction there is, and the more often we can reside in a place of authenticity.

Workplace Suffering and Emerging Pathologies

Ταλαιπωρία / Παρενόχληση στο χώρο εργασίας και αναδυόμενες παθολογίες

Finally, I am sharing an extract from an article with the title Workplace Suffering and Emerging Pathologies by Marie-France Hirigoyen (L’information psychiatrique Volume 84, Issue 9, 2008). Dr Marie-France Hirigoyen is a French psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, psychotherapist, victimologist and writer, specializing in moral harassment in diverse contexts, especially, mobbing behaviour in the workplace. She defines moral harassment as the attempt to psychologically annihilate the other with words, gestures, hints without the use of physical violence. I have just started reading two of her books translated into Greek, which I bought locally this summer, which could inform future posts. One is about psychological and emotional abuse of women within familial contexts and the other is about moral harassment and the hidden violence in our daily lives, particularly in work contexts. Read extracts from the article below:

“The Narcissistic Society: The Rise of Individualism and Loneliness

Η Ναρκισσιστική Κοινωνία: Η Άνοδος του Ατομικισμού και της Μοναξιάς

This increase in narcissistic pathologies is explained by the fact that such personalities are well-adapted to the modern world. These changes in the average individual reflect the mutations caused by company life and economic warfare, and are conditioned by the myth of the homo economicus, engaged in a “struggle for life” even at the expense of others. Individualism is a primary characteristic of our time. Until the 1980s, individuals thought of themselves as members of a collective and knew that this collective would support them. Peer groups or trade unions would mediate in conflicts. Today, it’s every man for himself. Relationships of cooperation and solidarity have been eroded, and relationships with institutions have lost their value. Common standards for what counts as good work have become less clear, and a sense of shared values has dissolved. The individual is at the center of the world, but they are alone there – a pawn in a multitude of others just like them. In a world where we are mere clones, everyone wants to be unique. But how does one stand out from the crowd at work? How can a person’s individuality be recognized when their leaders speak with a forked tongue, telling each individual to express their personality, but requiring their employees to fit into a mold? Conflicts, too, are increasingly sidestepped. They no longer manifest themselves at a collective level, but rather at an individual one.……..

Workplace Suffering and Emerging Pathologies What Can Be Done?

Ταλαιπωρία / Παρενόχληση στο χώρο εργασίας και αναδυόμενες παθολογίες. Τι μπορεί να γίνει;

Psychosocial risks are an inescapable problem in occupational health. It is up to psychiatrists, psychologists, sociologists, and specialists in workplace issues to convince business leaders to take concrete measures to monitor and prevent such dangers. There must be help for executives who find themselves responsible when one of their workers is seriously depressed, and even criminally responsible when complaints about harassment are raised. Steering between management by terror and demagogy, it can be difficult for them to establish a management style that is simply respectful of people. ….. Employers have an obligation to protect their employees’ health. The claiming that some employees are merely fragile does not hold: they are simply human, with all the fragility that naturally brings with it……

Conclusions / Συμπεράσματα

The changes people undergo in response to a changing society are irremediable and management must take it into account. If employers want to improve their employees’ morale once more, they must reintroduce respect for the human element into their management practices…….. Boundaries have also shifted. People are being asked to adapt, and even to over adapt. They must be able to rebound from failures, not questioning themselves and attributing responsibility for their mistakes to others. They must cast aside empathy and become aggressive enough to symbolically kill friends and enemies and lie to close a deal. In such a “game,” those with a hypertrophied Self succeed better than others in imposing their will. The degradation of work makes professional success less and less dependent on competence and far more on luck or opportunism. Hard work and good results are no longer enough. One must also make oneself visible, make oneself valued, expand one’s network. Appearance and visibility count for more than results and efficiency. A large address book and a good network count for more than talent. In a world of appearances, what matters is not what we are, but what we show ourselves to be—not the distant consequences of our actions, but their immediate, apparent results. This is the main reason perversion has become widespread: there is a general tendency to treat others as tools to be discarded when they are no longer useful. In addition to direct work pressures, there are much more subtle social pressures: one must be fit, happy, fulfilled, and high-achieving, because individuals are only valued for what they seem to be……. Developing an adaptive “false self” leads people to lose touch with their true inner feelings and to live an existence without authenticity. The race to succeed creates lonely people who are vulnerable to depression. If we want to reduce absences related to mental health problems, we must accept the vulnerabilities of people who cannot be in top form at all times. We must always consider people holistically. ….. The consequence of these changes is that our societies are becoming increasingly unequal: on the one hand, there are those who play the performance game, the unsentimental ones who are able to conceal their feelings or to let nothing affect them; on the other are the sensitive, over fragile ones, who are perpetually discarded (Marie-France Hirigoyen).”